WHY MEN & WOMEN CHEAT: REASONS & MYTHS ABOUT INFIDELITY
WHY MEN CHEAT:
Men & women cheat for very different reasons. It is generally assumed that men cheat for sex but this isn't the reason, (i.e. excuse), they have given for straying. It's also a myth that the mistress is sexier, skinnier, kinkier, or makes better chicken parmesan. Men who have had affairs report that their wives are actually more beautiful, have better bodies, and are nicer than the "other woman". Whuhh? So guys are cheating with fat, ugly, bitches?! The men explain that they missed the little "gestures". They say they no longer felt appreciated, needed, or noticed. Men show their love by being the protector & they love it when their woman notices & appreciates it. Great news ladies; no more over-priced lingerie, just let them renovate the bathroom, (but don't forget to say you really, really appreciate it).
SOME MYTHS ABOUT CHEATING:
1. Men & women cheat for the same reasons.
2. Mean cheat for sex.
3. People don't cheat if they have a fulfilling sex life at home.
4. The other woman is sexier than the wife.
5. Men cheat more often than women.
According to leading experts like Dr. Gary Neuman, maintaining an active and fulfilling sex life does not reduce the likelihood of cheating because it is not causal in the first place. Men reported to Dr. Neuman that their sex life at home did not play a role in why they cheated. Oddly; however, sexual fulfillment and lack of intimacy does play a role in why women cheat.
WHY WOMEN CHEAT:
A myth about female infidelity is that they don't cheat as much as men do. Gender no longer plays a large role in the likelihood of infidelity. Probably the biggest myth about why women stray is that they are looking for emotional fulfillment. While this may once have been the case, their reasons for looking outside their marriage for sex has changed with the times. Increasingly, women who have been unfaithful report that they did so simply for the excitement of it - and the sex. They report that they were bored with their lives and that the affair made them feel sexy and exhilarated. These women were generally, unsatisfied with their marital sex-lives. Many women admitted that they have done so more than once and may have had a series of short affairs - often with married men.
One similarity for both women and men, was that the most common place they met the other person was at work.
Infidelity can threaten one's health, family, finances, & even professional reputation. The strongest protection is in knowing the truth.
Please see our previous post or our website for some NEW SIGNS OF INFIDELITY
Men & women cheat for very different reasons. It is generally assumed that men cheat for sex but this isn't the reason, (i.e. excuse), they have given for straying. It's also a myth that the mistress is sexier, skinnier, kinkier, or makes better chicken parmesan. Men who have had affairs report that their wives are actually more beautiful, have better bodies, and are nicer than the "other woman". Whuhh? So guys are cheating with fat, ugly, bitches?! The men explain that they missed the little "gestures". They say they no longer felt appreciated, needed, or noticed. Men show their love by being the protector & they love it when their woman notices & appreciates it. Great news ladies; no more over-priced lingerie, just let them renovate the bathroom, (but don't forget to say you really, really appreciate it).
SOME MYTHS ABOUT CHEATING:
1. Men & women cheat for the same reasons.
2. Mean cheat for sex.
3. People don't cheat if they have a fulfilling sex life at home.
4. The other woman is sexier than the wife.
5. Men cheat more often than women.
According to leading experts like Dr. Gary Neuman, maintaining an active and fulfilling sex life does not reduce the likelihood of cheating because it is not causal in the first place. Men reported to Dr. Neuman that their sex life at home did not play a role in why they cheated. Oddly; however, sexual fulfillment and lack of intimacy does play a role in why women cheat.
WHY WOMEN CHEAT:
A myth about female infidelity is that they don't cheat as much as men do. Gender no longer plays a large role in the likelihood of infidelity. Probably the biggest myth about why women stray is that they are looking for emotional fulfillment. While this may once have been the case, their reasons for looking outside their marriage for sex has changed with the times. Increasingly, women who have been unfaithful report that they did so simply for the excitement of it - and the sex. They report that they were bored with their lives and that the affair made them feel sexy and exhilarated. These women were generally, unsatisfied with their marital sex-lives. Many women admitted that they have done so more than once and may have had a series of short affairs - often with married men.
One similarity for both women and men, was that the most common place they met the other person was at work.
Infidelity can threaten one's health, family, finances, & even professional reputation. The strongest protection is in knowing the truth.
Please see our previous post or our website for some NEW SIGNS OF INFIDELITY
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